March 9th, 2010 | Posted by smith under enart.qthx.com with
I will try to make this short. We have been best friends and lovers for almost 4 years, but for undisclosed reasons we cannot make it official (please respect this). We have to go our separate ways romantically but we want to remain best friends. We mean a lot to each other and we want to keep it this way. I keep telling her that when she finds her significant other, I will fade away..and vice versa. She does not believe this..We care a lot for each other, but life has to go on..Is there anyone out there with this experience? Can anyone offer some comforting words?
omg i am actually going threw this its so hard and ppl don't understand him and i were together forever and then broke up but tryed being best friends but grew apart and i know if he were to find some one else it would kill me inside but i want him to be happy and if i don't make him happy i hope the next girl does we tryed keeping our friendship but the more we tryed it got harder cause feeling got in the way to where we almost gave up and it still is hard with all the emotions i have for him in the way i am not ready to see or hear him with another girl and i mean what if one day he says he has a new gf how am i going to react to this whats going to happen? i hope everything works well but be strong and do whats best for the both of you even if it hurts do whats best if you need a person to talk to you can email me and i will do my best to help
If you both want to remain friends then I don't see any problem. And Yes you can be friends with ex lovers as long as you both know where the boundaries are.
Ofcourse u can b d best of friends ,don't worry go ahead.
I have been there before. I was with my ex for 2 yrs and remained the best of friends. That was over 10 years ago. As time went on my feelings subsided and when I met my hubby the phone calls became less and less. He faded out. I talk to him maybe once every 2 yrs or so, but time will heal all wounds. Right now its really fresh so it doesn't seem like it will, but once you and her meet others it will fade.
well, give her space until you happy and comfortable to talk to each other
They are called ex's for a reason. It is often difficult to just be friends with someone you were intimate with, especially if they have moved on and you still have feelings for them. Cut your losses, move forward.
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